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Overcoming Performance Anxiety in Sports
Do you find yourself lying awake the night before a big game, your mind racing with worries about making mistakes? Or perhaps you've noticed that despite your physical preparation, anxiety seems to sabotage your performance when it matters most?
The Vagus Nerve: Your Body's Stress Response System and How to Calm It
Have you ever wondered why some people seem naturally calm while others feel constantly on edge? Or why certain breathing exercises or activities instantly make you feel more relaxed?
Understanding the Core of Well-being Through Emotional Intelligence
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to navigate life's challenges with grace while others struggle with emotional overwhelm? The answer often lies in emotional intelligence—a set of skills that forms the foundation of mental well-being, healthy relationships, and personal resilience.
What Helps and What Doesn't When Your Child Is Anxious
As a parent, watching your child struggle with anxiety can feel overwhelming. You want to help, but knowing exactly what to do—and what not to do—can be confusing.
Age-Appropriate Approaches for Talking to Your Children About Trauma
As parents, few things feel more challenging than knowing how to talk to our children about difficult or traumatic experiences.
The Power of Vulnerability: Why Opening Up Takes Strength
For many of us, especially those who have experienced trauma or learned early that showing our true selves isn't safe, vulnerability can feel like the most dangerous thing we could do.
Listening to What Your Body Is Telling You With Somatic Experiencing
Your body remembers what your mind might forget. Long after a traumatic experience, your nervous system may continue to hold onto protective responses that once kept you safe but now interfere with your daily life.
Sports Psychology for Youth Athletes
In the quiet moments after a game, when the cheers have faded and equipment is packed away, many young athletes face a complex mix of emotions.
Mental Training for Peak Athletic Performance
Every athlete knows the feeling—you've put in countless hours of physical training, your technique is solid, your conditioning is excellent, yet when it comes time to perform, something holds you back. Maybe it's the voice in your head telling you you're not good enough, the overwhelming anxiety before competition, or the way one mistake seems to derail your entire performance.
The Science Behind EMDR: How Eye Movements Help Heal Trauma
When people first hear about EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), their initial reaction is often skepticism. How can something as simple as moving your eyes back and forth while thinking about a traumatic memory possibly help heal deep emotional wounds?
Post-Traumatic Growth: Finding the Gift in Adversity
When we think about trauma, we often focus on its devastating effects—the sleepless nights, the flashbacks, the ways it can shatter our sense of safety and self. This focus is important and valid because trauma's impact is real and profound.
The Four Horsemen of Relationship Destruction and How to Defeat Them
Every relationship faces challenges, and struggling doesn't mean your relationship is doomed—it means you're human, with hope for deeper connection ahead. At the Center for Healing & Personal Growth, we've witnessed countless couples transform their relationships by recognizing destructive patterns and choosing healing over harm.
Feeling nervous or blue?
Have you ever caught yourself feeling sad or nervous for no particular reason? What do you do when you feel blue or anxious?
Are you in a “conscious” romantic relationship?
Have you ever noticed couples who seem to be in a wonderful harmony together? Have you wondered what makes their relationship work?
The Secret of Happiness
Have you ever wondered what makes people happy? Do you consider yourself happy? Have you ever wondered how you can be happier?
Are you a perfectionist?
Do you feel the need to be in control? Do people tell you that you are stubborn and inflexible?
Grief and Loss
I was recently saddened by the tragic news of the death of a beautiful young woman who left many disbelieving friends and family members behind. Of course, I had the same reaction as many: shock, disbelief, confusion, sadness, and many other conflicting emotions.